Booty called!

Boys, I have a question for you. How do you decipher the difference between a girl who is “wife material” and a girl who is a “booty call?”

I ask this because I’ve never been an “easy” girl. I’ve made sure my rep is pretty clean, I have more respect for myself then anyone else, yet recently EVERY SINGLE DUDE I’ve met has booty called me after one date or LESS! Does that make it a challenge? Am I giving off the wrong impression? Either way it’s SO annoying.

I see all around me my friends all in respectful relationships, dudes falling in love with girls, proposals, babies and I’m flying solo as usual I don’t have anyone special in my life because I REFUSE to be booty called by anyone. I can go on dates, meet people, catch up with old flames and literally the next time they contact me is a text at 10pm saying “come round, watch TV?” Literally! It happened just last week, I’m gutted coz he was really fit but I wont lower my standards for anyone, isn’t that what dudes want? A girl who respects herself?

Really where am I going wrong?

My friends always tease me saying you’re too fussy you need to give people a chance. Mate I haven’t said no to a date in months so it’s definitely not me.

I feel like all I rant on about recently is lads. If I’m not rejecting booty calls I’m getting led on and then left flying solo. Or another example of getting hurt is one lad I used to like was meant to come to the races on ladies day with us. Dropped out last minute without saying why and then went to the Grand National the next day with a group of our mutual friends without inviting me or even mentioning it. Yeah that was the straw that broke the camels’ back with that one, especially because I found out via snap chat. It’s not cool. But it did do me a huge favour and put me straight off him. #Bye!

I ask all the time where are all the decent lads? But then again where are all the decent girls? If a lad thinks its perfectly normal to booty call a girl these days its only girls who will have given them that idea.

Thinks of the diseases people! Yuck!

 


3 thoughts on “Booty called!

  1. You’re right about that last statement… referring to girls giving men the idea that it’s normal to ask for booty calls or a quick fix of fake love.
    I think there is no such thing as a “wife material” woman. Not all “good men want a “good” woman, and vice versa

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    1. … I feel most guys who want to be married are looking for a woman who they are attracted to, maybe wants kids and would be a good mother, has similar values and who loves them.

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  2. ive never had a girl to booty call 🙂 i would much rather spend valueble time with them walks on the beach or watching movies few drinks crazy parties and obviosly what happens happens and if we start seeing each other then obviosly things are diffrent. if i was to take rachael on a date though she would never be a booty call id take her on many dates and would love her to be on my arm and to be my life partner

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